Dating is hard enough, but if you’re looking for that special someone to spend the rest of your life with, it’s even more pressure. You’re looking for chemistry and long-term compatibility – the total package. You’re not getting any younger, but is hiring a matchmaker the right thing to do?
Here are 6 signs it might be the right move for you:
You’re single, but you don’t have time to mingle.
Many professionals are just too busy to meet new people. You’ve got a lot of demands on your time, and the last thing you want to do after a 10-hour workday is hang out at a noisy bar or a crowded club, hoping someone catches your eye. And are those really the type of people you want to date anyway?
Online dating is even more time consuming – scrolling through profiles, sending message after message… In fact, statistics show the average online dater spends 12 hours a week on dating sites (1). That’s 48 hours a month, 576 hours a year, and… you get the idea. It’s time you don’t have.
Matchmaking experts do the hard part for you, and present you with carefully screened candidates that fit your specific preferences and personality.
You can’t seem to find “The One”.
Even if you have no problem finding dates, meeting the RIGHT person is hard. Think about it – people you meet at random places like restaurants, bars, and clubs are just that – random people.
While someone might get lucky and find their soulmate in line at Starbucks, those are some long odds. Matchmakers take “random” out of the equation by choosing matches based on extensive information you provide about yourself and what you’re looking for.
You want a fresh perspective.
Matchmakers can help with every aspect of your dating life – they do far more than just set you up with a date.
Perhaps you need a fresh perspective on things to realign your search because you’re going about it all wrong. Not everyone is lucky enough to have a best friend who dispenses honest advice and constructive feedback. There’s no shame in hiring one. Think of your matchmaker like a personal trainer for your love life.
Many matchmakers even offer services such as dating coaches, image consultants, and photo retouching.
You aren’t looking for something casual.
It takes a few dates to get comfortable enough with someone to bring up the “landmine” conversation topics – kids, politics, religion… the things you don’t necessarily want to bring up on the first date if you want there to be a second one. And the last thing you want to do is scare off an attractive prospect by asking their views on marriage before the appetizers even arrive.
But at the same time, you don’t have time to waste dating people that aren’t looking for a long term relationship, so these are things you want to know up front. Matchmaking solves that problem, because you’ll be matched with people who have the same relationship goals.
You’re burned out on lining up your own dates.
Lining up dates is time consuming, emotionally exhausting, and expensive. And after months or years of unsatisfying dates and failed relationships, you’re just plain over it.
Now you’ve got someone to do the hard part for you – all you have to do is show up and turn on the charm.
What you’ve been doing just isn’t working.
If you were in a relationship, you wouldn’t be reading this, right? Think of it this way – if your refrigerator broke down, you’d call an expert to fix it. Why should your love life be any different? With literally thousands of matchmaking services to choose from, there’s no reason for you to stay single.
Why not start now? Take the first step toward finding that special someone by checking out my FREE “Matchmaker Secrets” Report now. I’m an ex-matchmaker with 10 years of industry experience, and my report has ALL the crucial info you need to know before hiring a matchmaker.
Once you’ve read the report, you’ll realize I’m passionate about helping people like you choose a service that will maximize your chances of finding love.
I’ll even give you a 100% complimentary phone consultation, where you’ll speak with me personally. No hassles, no obligations, no hidden fees, none of that stuff – just a chat about how I can help get you on the fast track to finding love and happiness. That’s why you’re reading this after all, so why wait?