Once you’ve made the decision to invest in a matchmaking service, you’ll want to do your part to maximize your chances of success. You’re making a large investment and you want the best ROI possible.
If you’ve chosen your matchmaker wisely, she’s going to do everything she can to help you find the love of your life. But here are five essential things you can do to help her help you:
Know what you want in an ideal partner, but be flexible.
This may sound contradictory, but it really isn’t. Of course you already have an idea of the characteristics and personality traits “The One” should have, but a good matchmaker will also get you thinking outside the box. She’s an expert in relationships, and if you keep an open mind, she might just find someone you’d never consider on your own but quickly realize you can’t live without.
Understand this isn’t a quick process.
You’re probably not going to meet the partner of your dreams overnight. Be patient, and give your matchmaker time to work her magic. After all, that’s why you hired her.
Be optimistic but realistic.
A high-quality matchmaker is truly vested in your happiness, and she’ll work hard to find you that special someone. But be realistic with your goals, and realize that not everyone is going to end up with a centerfold model, no matter how much they pay for the service.
Be a good match yourself.
Take a look in the mirror and do an honest evaluation. If there are ways to improve your look, get on it. Remember your partner has to choose you as well, so you might want to take action on finally shedding those ten pounds or investing in a fresh wardrobe. A good matchmaker will be proactive about making suggestions for improving your marketability, and can offer additional services like image consulting and dating coaching.
Take your dating skills to the next level.
Every first date you go on is an opportunity to improve your dating skills.
Work on having a stronger presence, being there in the moment (rather than thinking about what you’re going to say next), and improving your posture and body language. Focus on enjoying yourself instead of letting your nerves get the best of you. Remember – confidence is attractive.
Matchmakers will often collect feedback from both sides after the first date, and if your matchmaker is willing to share that information with you, don’t let your ego get in the way of seeing what you can learn from it.
If you’re constantly trying to blame everyone else for your shortcomings, you’ll be blind to your own. Keep an open mind and, remember “If you’re not growing, you’re dying.” ( -Tony Robbins)
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